Decisions are often made with the best of intentions, but they don’t always work out as planned. This is for a few reasons.
- Decisions are often based on things we think we should do, rather than things we really want to do. This can make them feel like a chore, which makes them harder to stick with.
- They are often unrealistic, which can lead us to failure.
- They are often so rigid and specific that they leave no room for real life. If our bandwidth changes, we fail. If our motivation changes, we fail.
Why set a theme for 2024?
So, how about setting a topic vs. an analysis, it’s time to switch it up! A theme is a word or phrase that represents the intention, vibe, or energy you want to cultivate in the coming year. It can be something narrow like innovation/new experiences or something more general like balance or connection. Having a theme helps keep you focused and motivated throughout the year and is much more likely to be successful than a resolution.
Whether you’re trying to improve your sex life or just want to spice it up a bit, here are five themed ideas to help you feel more sexually fulfilled in 2024.
Playful
Play is a great way to connect with your partner and create moments of joy. It can also be a great way to relieve stress and tension and boost your mood.
If you’re looking to add a little more play to your bedroom repertoire, here are some ideas to get you started. Try incorporating playful activities such as role playing or improvisation. Also, add playful props like wings, blinkersand massage oils which can add an extra element of fun.
Creative
If you’re in a long-term relationship, it’s easy to slip into a sex rut. Know what turns your partner on and stick to those tried and true moves. But this can make sex feel routine and boring over time.
If you want to spice things up, experiment with new activities, positions and locations. You can also experiment with different ways of touching and talking to your partner. Be open to trying new things and don’t be afraid to invite your partner to bring their imagination into the bedroom as well. If you’re never feeling inspired, just head over to our blog for creative bedroom ideas like bringing food into the bedroom or building a sex room.
Unhindered
Shame and inhibition are the major obstacles to having an out-of-this-world sex life. Removing any inhibitions that may be holding you back is a strong thematic focus. The benefits of your progress will ripple throughout your sex life. This may mean overcoming shyness or insecurity, as well as any judgments or preconceived notions you may have about sex.
Start with small ways to expand your comfort level. Experiment with controlling dirty talk, try a boudoir shoot that helps you see how naturally attractive your body is, undress for your partner, try underwear that makes you feel amazing, sext with your partner or have sex in front of a mirror.
Royal
There’s nothing like feeling luxurious or decadent in bed. Whether it’s the silky feel of the sheets against your skin, the plump pillows that hug your head, or the thick duvet that snuggles up against you, it’s hard to beat the feeling of total relaxation.
When you add some special touches like scented candles, a sensual playlist, high-end gamesand luxurious lotion, you can create an oasis of pleasure fit for royalty. Treat yourself like a queen and let your partner follow suit. Be vocal about what you want and need.
Strong
When you’re in the driver’s seat, you can dictate the pace, volume and overall experience. You are in control of your pleasure and you can make sure your partner is having fun too. It’s a warm, empowering feeling, and it’s one that can really deepen the connection between you and your partner.
So if you want to upgrade your sex life, start taking control and see where it takes you. Things like light work and introducing a strap All can be places to start as you experiment with power play in the bedroom. Click here for more on how to bring curves into the bedroom.
With these sample topics to ignite your imagination, you have everything you need to set an inspiring intention to make the most of your sex life in the coming year. So what are you waiting for? Work to make 2024 the best year for your sex life!
