Technology has revolutionized the way we interact with each other – especially when it comes to dating. Dating apps have allowed people to connect with potential sexual or romantic partners from the comfort of their couch.
Convenience has been one of the main selling points of dating apps. The ability to meet someone despite your busy schedule or introverted personality. This was the backbone behind some of the major dating apps that people are familiar with, such as Tinder, Bumble and Hinge.
But there’s a new wave of dating apps that go beyond convenience and cater to specific niches or interests someone might have. Check out some of these new apps to find out which one piques your interest.
1. Feel
Best for: People exploring ethical non-monogamy.
Available in: Most countries and regions that have access to the App Store and Google Play Store.
Feel it it was based on the belief that “nothing is more fluid or less binary than human relationships.” Their inclusive settings have over twenty different sexual orientations and a wide range of gender identities to choose from. Vogue called Feeld “The Progressive Dating App.”
They also have innovative features like couple accounts that allow people to date their partner or significant other and have group chats so you can create a digital multiple*. For those looking for extra privacy, you can hide your profile from others until they like it first.
*A polyculture is a network of people in morally non-monogamous relationships who are connected to each other.
2. Pure Dating App
Best for: People who want to explore their kinky side or specific fantasies.
Available in: Most cities around the world, while you can connect virtually with people around the world.
NET markets itself as an “honest, shameless dating app.” Unlike the typical dating app model, Pure lets you post an “ad” of yourself so you can start getting likes, chatting, and meeting new people.
They have created a platform that allows people to openly share their sexual fantasies and connect with like-minded people. There’s room to say what your triggers are and what you’re looking for (occasional, long-term, virtually, whatever). You can even play the Russian Roulette-like Devil’s Bones game for a virtual date.
3. HER
Best for: FLINTA dating – female, lesbian, intersex, trans and older.
Available in: Over 125 different countries.
HER aims to be a safe space for people to be their authentic selves and find their people. Made by queers, for queers. They emphasize the importance of creating supportive, safe queer spaces to give people the opportunity to have new experiences and connect without fear.
They welcome all lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, trans and gender non-conforming people to join and meet like-minded people, share their stories and possibly meet their person (or people). You can use it to make friends and connect with people or go on dates.
4. Bloom Community
Best for: Those looking for community based events.
Available in: Based in the United States, the Bloom community is slowly spreading to other cities
Bloom Community is an app that allows users to create, share, and learn about community-based events that revolve around their specific interests. Those looking to connect with queer, wellness, queer, kink, artist, and alternative communities can find events that cater to those specific communities.
They aim to create an inclusive and safe space where people can find a sense of belonging. Members share values such as consent, communication and inclusion. You can also find workshops on topics like “Navigating Sex and ADHD,” “How to Please a Vulture,” and “Writing Spicy: Online Erotica Writing Group.”
5. LFGDATING
Best for: Players looking for love and connection.
Available in: United States
Gaming may seem like just another hobby, but for people who are passionate about it, it’s a way of life and a passion. Many want the ability to connect with others romantically for this passion. Someone who gets it and wants to explore virtual worlds with him. That’s where LFGDATING It comes to.
The founders wanted to create a space where gamers could connect without the judgment that can come from the social stigma of being a gamer.
6. HUD application
Best for: Shameless, inclusive exploration.
Available in: Most countries.
HUD application (Honest Upfront Dating) allows you to create a “bedroom” where you can define your desires, likes and dislikes. When you view someone else’s profile, you can see how many of these desires match, creating an opportunity to communicate your sexual needs and explore them together.
A nice feature in this app is the “Bedroom Archetype” where you can describe your bedroom’s unique personality by choosing one of twelve different archetypes. Your bedroom is meant to be a place where you can express yourself freely and without shame.
They pride themselves on offering direct interactions, pressure-free dating and an inclusive environment where casual encounters are welcome.
Dating App Tips
Regardless of your intentions or interests, there are some general ground rules or Guidelines which can help make your dating app experience much more enjoyable and meaningful.
Keep these tips in mind as you venture into the dating world:
- Be honest about your intentions and what you’re looking for.
- Try a quick virtual date before meeting someone IRL.
- Make sure your profile truly reflects you and what you’re looking for.
- Take breaks if you feel exhausted or don’t enjoy the process.
- Put yourself out there and take initiative.
We know dating can be scary, but using an app that suits your needs can help you feel much more welcome and safe to explore. Now get out there and have fun!
