How to relax in a bar the easy way

It’s time to learn how to chill at a bar the easy way. Without having to complicate anything and without having to spend a lot of money on drinks or bottle service.

To do this, you need to check for women who are there and their goal is also to hook up.

You see, if you go to a crowded bar hoping to hook up with someone, but don’t check out the DTF women first, you’re going to be wasting a lot of time. And they often end up alone at the end of the night.

So the worst thing you can do in a bar to get laid is approach every woman you see. Because many of them will be there to relax and chill with friends. Which means they won’t really be looking for any action and they won’t want to sleep with you. And if other women see them rejecting you every time, they won’t be open to your advances.

So how can you avoid this and control women who want to fuck?

Let me show you.

How to get laid in a bar tonight

Here is the exact sequence of steps how to lay in a bar:

1. Screen for women who want to connect.
2. Approach them directly.
3. Compliment them on something specific you notice about them that caught your eye.
4. Have fun, flirt, I tease them playfullybanter for a while, to build traction.
5. Create some sexual tension.
6. Once they get to know you, tell them you want to continue this conversation somewhere private.
7. Once they accept, take them home or go to their place. (Or if the sexual tensionThey’re too high, take them to the bathroom!)

This is the exact sequence of steps I personally use to get links to a bar. It is also what I have taught many men how to do and they have had consistent success using these steps.

So let’s break it all down so you know each step and what you need to do during it.

Controlling women who want to relax in a bar is important

Most of the time, if a girl wants to relax, she won’t come to the bar with only one friend. Because if she finds someone she wants to bang, she won’t feel comfortable leaving her friend alone.

That’s why it’s often foolish to approach two women together, without a feather. Unless you have good game and can lure them both into a threesome, that is. Or if you’re just out to get phone numbers and don’t want to rest that night.

This means you should either look out for single women. Or women who are in a group of friends. Because if you pull one woman away, the others won’t feel lonely and can still talk to each other.

So start by looking for women who are there alone. They are the ones most likely there to meet someone to hook up with tonight.

If there aren’t any, look for women who are in larger groups of at least 3 people. A big giveaway that they are ready for some fun is if they look around the room and look at the guys. Instead of dealing with their friends. Because it means that they are not very interested in spending time with friends and are instead looking for a man who will catch their eye.

Things to watch out for women who want to get stuck in a bar

When you see a woman who meets the above criteria, pay attention to her body language, mannerisms and how she is dressed. Because these things will tell you a lot about her intentions.

For example, if she’s dressed to impress, it means she’s doing it to get men to notice her. And if she’s dressed in casual clothes, it usually means she’s just there to hang out with friends.

So if the woman is in a nice short dress, has an obvious cleavage or is wearing clothes that emphasize her body and curves, like tight shorts and a tank top. Then it’s a good bet she wants men to notice her body and approach her.

Then watch her body language. Women who want to relax in a bar have an open and approachable body language. Which means they don’t cross their arms, hunch over their drink and fall over. Instead, they sit upright, trying to show off their curves and breasts to would-be suitors.

Finally, pay attention to their mannerisms and aim to make eye contact. Women who are interested in getting laid will actively scan the line for men who might be interested. They will be looking around at other people, so try to catch their eye.

When your eyes meet, hold your gaze, smile and nod. Or else acknowledge her by waving to her, shouting “Hi!” or do something else to get her attention.

If he doesn’t look away, if he smiles, or looks down and she acts like a shy girlbut if he blushes or smiles while doing it, that’s a great sign.

Approach in a direct manner and give a specific compliment or remark

The next step is pretty easy. When after maintaining eye contact, if she doesn’t seem indifferent to you or she doesn’t look away and never look back – then it’s time to approach her.

That said, you can also approach women in a bar without your eyes ever meeting. It’s just that it’s much easier after positive eye contact, since it’s a sign of interest.

Most importantly, when you approach, do so in a direct manner. Because being indirect with women in bars is not the optimal way to get away with someone. As it goes on too long and women won’t really understand your intentions.

So, the direct approach is this: You who are looking at her, walk up to her, introduce yourself and tell her that she caught your eye.

You can say it just like this: “Hey, there’s something about you that caught my eye, so I wanted to introduce myself and see who you are.” And then shine a charming smile 🙂

Then you give her a specific compliment.

You can, of course, just tell her she’s pretty or hot or whatever. But beautiful women hear this all the time, so this compliment is too general and not specific.

But they exist There are many ways to call women beautiful without being creepy. And my favorite is to just give a genuine compliment about something that drew your attention to her. Like her clothes, her personality, her features, the way she moves, talks, sits, etc. Something you really like about her.

Have fun, flirt and create sexual tension

The next one on how to relax in a bar is the hardest because it requires you to have game. In this case, play is a collection of social and seduction skills that men can learn.

Basically, you need to have a fun, interesting, engaging, or otherwise engaging conversation with her about whatever you want. The goal is to get her emotionally involved, so she feels different when she talks to you. For example, the main reason because women love bad boys precisely because these guys make women feel a lot of emotions when they are with them.

So engage in playful banter, flirt, have fun and start teasing. This will create tons of traction if you do it right.

It usually takes about 2 to 20 minutes for women to really start enjoying your company, after which they will find you more attractive, like you more, and love you.

Then you will begin to notice many signs of sexual tension. This will be your cue to start working on building that chemistry even more. So the girl gets aroused and horny and wants you sexually.

Time to take her home

The last step is to go somewhere private where you can both have sex.

When you notice that the sexual tension is getting too strong and she’s getting hot, it’s time to say you want to take her home.

If the chemistry is really strong, you can simply tell her that you want her to come home with you directly. But it’s usually best to invite her to come somewhere else with you, without directly saying that the two of you are going to have sex. So she doesn’t feel like she’s “easy” or naughty.

You can just say something like “Let’s go, after party at my house!” or “Hey, I’m sick of this bar, but I really like your company. Let’s take this conversation somewhere more private!”

Then you take her hand and lead her home. And that’s how you squeeze in the same night!