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It’s hard to be naked. Especially in front of your classmates or colleagues. You may have read my previous blog post about doing The Mirror Exercise when I was in graduate school. The Mirror Exercise is a confrontational group experience where each person in a group of mixed-gender sexologists is asked to undress piece by piece while looking into a mirror and saying aloud the words that come to mind – speaking the negative (and sometimes positive) self-talk that it comes out unwanted from the mind to the body. , I recently did The Mirror Exercise again. This time, I…

We worked with NCS to see practical examples of giving and withholding sexual consent, based on Netflix series Heartstopper What is consent? And how do we put it into practice? How do we ask for consent without feeling awkward, embarrassing, or even put off? Consent can sometimes feel confusing, and it’s understandable to feel frustrated that sexual consent isn’t as simple as saying ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Obtaining consent is the minimum about what to do when it comes to being sexually intimate with someone, but how do we do that in real life? We’ve rounded up all of our best…

It’s hard to believe, but the end of the year is approaching – and fast. Have you already started looking for a perfect Christmas present for your partner? Put down the novelty socks, ditch the ugly sweater and have a vacation to remember. A few spices never hurt anyone. Get ready to be a kinky Santa this year and choose a gift that will set you and your bae’s Christmas night on fire. Even if it’s cold outside, you can keep it warm at home. So here are 8 romantic Santa gift ideas for you and yours that will make…

Last update:November 28, 2023When the weather finally drops low enough that we can no longer pretend it’s fall, minds quickly turn to winter vacations that will turn up the heat. Below are some of the best winter getaways to take as a couple, from the deeply romantic to the sultry and sexy. So pick your favourite, pack your bags and discover the abundant delights around the world! Havana, Cuba Dirty dancing: Havana Nights It may not have lived up to its prequel as much as great, sexy movies, but it managed to open us up to the sensuality that runs…

Like coachit is my privilege to help others experience the pleasure, connection, intimacy, fulfillment and love they desire…because we all deserve it. I believe we should never be ashamed to express our needs, pursue our desires and dreams. Let’s shamelessly explore our vocabulary! I recently received a beautiful testimony from a couple I coached who expressed so eloquently what they have experienced and how their relationship has evolved while being coached by me. It is so rewarding to receive coaching reviews like these from my clients because it means that the private coaching sessions are helping them with their personal…

Ask a sex coach I would love to learn how to increase female sensitivity. I’m in my 20s and I don’t feel anything inside. Compared to my clit, my vagina feels numb.” – Karen Dear Karen,In the world where the media and romance novels often portray an idealized version of pleasure and sensitivity, it’s all too easy to assume that everyone else is experiencing immense pleasure from penetration. Thinking this way can result in: feeling ashamed or not good enough tolerance of sex that is not pleasant feel uncomfortable sharing your experience (which only deepens feelings of shame and isolation)…

Nature’s Remedy for Singles Seeking Love Hello, busy bees of the professional world! Have you ever found yourself caught up in the whirlwind of life, swiping left and right in search of love, and still feel like you’re stuck in an endless loop of loneliness? Are you among the many freelancers who juggle hectic schedules, endless meetings, and persistent stress that still leave you free? Well, listen up, because we have a game changer for you. Nature may just hold the key to loving not only others but the most important person in your life – YOU! Diving in the…

Dr. Jane Greer May 3, 2023Working together to rebuild a relationship.BASIC POINTSWill an affair make or break your marriage?An affair can be a wake-up call for a marriage.It is possible to reconnect after a relationship and regain lost intimacy.We often put refusal into action in an attempt to soften the blow, to make something we know will hurt us seem less bad. If we pretend it’s not happening, then it can’t touch us, right?The truth is that ignoring a problem can make it worse in many ways. Think infidelityfor example.If we have the impression that our spouse or partner might…

In today’s weekly post, I want to discuss a topic that I think needs to be addressed: Be careful not to interview people on dates! As much as dating can feel like a job interview sometimes, it should never feel clinical or intimidating! Some men and women have a huge checklist that can feel like an interrogation. It’s not a great experience to be put in that position and it feels like control. When did some people get so justified as they think “An appointment“Should every box be labeled with unrealistic relationship expectations? One wrong answer and it’s out! I…

Have you ever felt your partner pull away from you and the more you pushed, the more he or she backed away? Or maybe you’ve been on the other end of that drama where your partner’s pushy energy pulled you further away from him or her. If so, you are definitely not alone! We see this push drama in so many relationships, in our past relationships – and it comes up every now and then even now in our relationship. Here’s a letter from Claire on this topic where she asks a question that is an extremely common relationship challenge……