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A declining sexual relationship can be one of the most difficult challenges of a long-term relationship. However, while it is a common issue, some couples remain sexually satisfied or manage to maintain their chemistry. What do couples who report being sexually satisfied understand? What do they do that allows them to connect so easily? Let’s explore some of the basic principles that most healthy loving couples share in long-term relationships: They talk about sex: Both people are comfortable talking about sexuality in general. Any person can easily bring up needs, wants and desires as well as fears, dislikes and…

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Tim and Carolyn*, both 36, were an attractive, financially successful couple when they met through mutual friends. Carolyn was drawn to Tim’s generous and carefree style. He often bought her lavish gifts and treated a host of friends to drinks and dinner. Carolyn was more moderate in her spending.Before the wedding, Tim pressured Carolyn into fighting with her father over her trust fund. Caroline resisted. She was also reluctant to pool her resources when she learned that, despite his six-figure income, Tim had few savings and a credit score of 550. Even before her parental trust began, Carolyn had saved…

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Notes from the video:Dating can be a tricky game and sometimes, it’s not easy to spot the players among the genuine people looking for love and commitment. When a man is playing you, he is intentionally giving you a false sense of his intentions to fulfill his own needs while ignoring yours. More often than not, these intentions revolve around physical intimacy. In this blog post, we’ll explore nine signs that can help you recognize when a guy is playing you so you can protect yourself and your feelings. #1. Last minute plansIf a guy is constantly making last-minute plans…

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Since 2001, Gallup collects data every month to gauge public opinion on various issues. For their conduct Social series interviews (ie, their monthly data collection process), the researchers call at least 1,000 US adults and ask them telephone interview questions, with the sample weighted to match the overall US population in terms of sex, age, race, and other key demographics; factors. Each May, these interviews focus on Values ​​and Beliefs, which include moral attitudes toward a variety of sexual behaviors. You can read the full report of their findings herebut I got closer look at the data in order for…

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When my husband first moved to Portland, he couldn’t shake the nagging feeling that the street he lived on looked familiar. The road? Flanders. When I explained to him that many Simpsons character names come from Portland, he was surprised. This resulted in a long discussion about The Simpsons and their connection to Portland. Finally, it’s my time to shine! But where do I start? Who is the creator of The Simpsons? Well, I guess we can start with the brain. The creator of The Simpsons grew up in the city of roses (lucky us)! Matt Groening was born and…

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Confronting the thought, “My husband’s low self-esteem is destroying our marriage,” can be a sobering realization. In many marriages, the vicissitudes of one partner’s struggles with self-esteem are profound, often leaving the other partner feeling insecure and constantly walking on eggshells. This delicate balance affects not only emotional harmony but also physical intimacy and an overall sense of well-being within the relationship. It is a situation that requires understanding and a gentle approach. It’s important to remember that feeling good about ourselves and our relationships doesn’t rest solely on one person’s shoulders. It is a journey of mutual growth and…

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This woman wrote me about dating a widower and red flags she found. My view is completely different from hers – here is the whole story. The downside of dating a widower Dear Ronnie, Aid! I am a widow, now dating a widow for 3 years. My gut told me not to date, as it was only a few weeks after his wife died when we first met. At that time he told me it was a big goodbye and he was ready. He is a good man and unlike anyone I have known and cared for. I have met…

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You really can’t teach an old dog new tricksI’m not really interested in having someone get deep inside me, even if they’re really cute.Big vibrators always seem more scary than arousing to me.And I don’t envy women who can ride dongs as thick as my forearm. I mean, don’t get me wrong. I’ll see them do it. It just won’t give me the urge to jump in and have a row at the silicone pool noodle.Large object import just isn’t for me. It’s like the sound or kind of deep rubber that destroys your mascara – great that people like…

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Can we talk about human-helpers who claim that people suffer “because they choose to suffer” or that people are stuck “because they decide to be stuck?” We can talk about how damaging this attitude is, especially from people who have positioned themselves as helpers? I have seen posts from coaches and human helpers stating that people suffer because they choose to suffer. I don’t blog about everything I come across. But living with chronic pain, carrying the effects of trauma in my body, and playing hopscotch with “advice” from well-meaning (sometimes) Christians, I feel the need to comment. (Also, I…

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Alpha Males Alpha males have good and bad traits. Sometimes a trait can be both, depending on how a particular man uses that trait. First, let’s look at the positive traits of an alpha male. He is a strong leader The alpha man is a strong leader who leads by example. This is one of those traits that can fall into both positive and negative categories, especially when it comes to relationships with alpha females. If you’re willing to give up your leadership role in the relationship, you’ll find that your alpha will always point you in the right direction.…

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