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It’s much easier to focus on what the other person is doing (or not doing) in a relationship. Does it follow the rules? Communicating according to your preferences? Can you read your mind? Being a royal pain-in-the-you-know-what? Did it ever occur to you that you are learning how to be more self-you know in a relationship can be the key to getting the answers you want?If you’ve skipped the Oprah years or always looked away from the self-help section at the bookstore, self-awareness can seem puzzling. You’ve certainly heard the term, but it’s not exactly cracker fodder.So if you’re not…

While it’s natural to overestimate our romantic lives and tie the knot, the fact is that the purpose of a first date is very simple: to find out if we want a second date with this person. So, what signs and signals should we look for before deciding whether to meet again? What might we recognize as first date green flags? I’d like to offer five first date green flags that suggest a second date might be a good idea. Before I do that, though, an important caveat: Many of us struggle on first dates, with nerves, awkwardness, and expectations.…

Sexual healing: Transforming sex from pain to reflection and educationI had the privilege, as I do every Monday, of sharing a space with men who want to explore their masculinity and grow on their own.One of the themes that emerged was how sex is perceived culturally and the subtheme was based on the view that sex can heal or sex can harm. In addition to this, I have added a third element that sex can really force us to reflect and become an important trainer for us.We must first understand what the term sex means to us. Does it mean…

Pastors need accountability, not protection is a statement some Christians take issue with. I have seen people say, “Be careful,” “Don’t be so eager to cast the first stone,” or “It’s a slippery slope,” when referring to a harmful Christian teaching. It seems that many Christians believe that church leaders are not to blame: sure not regular human beings who make mistakes and need to grow. And maybe that’s why when mistakes happen and faith leaders have to take responsibility for their mistakes and instead of everyone expecting growth, some are quick to turn to why those discussing harm should…

As you mature, you may start thinking about fighting between the sheets with someone for the first time. Apart from that, there are probably millions of questions running through your mind like, “How you feel”, “How to handle any stress”, “How to protect yourself, and more. The thing about sex is that it’s something people do every day, but we don’t quite know how to talk about it. So, let’s get straight to the point. Sex is not a bad thing. In fact, it is something that gives you a lot of fun and joy, but only if you feel…

LaToya Zavala, spiritual inner strength coach, helps women release blocks and triggers to free themselves from self-sabotage and become more authentic. You’ll hear all about how she made this transformation herself in this episode Breathe Love & Magic podcast. Survivor of Domestic Violence My guest is an amazing woman who has survived domestic violence and is now coaching other women to stand up for themselves. Growing up in Boston, she was in a domestically violent relationship as a young woman that destroyed her faith and left her with nothing. LaToya pulled herself together and wanted to go to school, but…

In an unprecedented move that caught the attention of environmentalists and animal rights activists such as Jane Goodall and Ian Redmond, The World Civet Project launched the first World Civet Day todayApr 4, 2024. This groundbreaking initiative aims to raise awareness of the controversial production of Civet coffee, also known as Kopi Luwak, and the significant impact it has on small cat-like animals called Civets in Asia. What are Civets? Muskrats are cute, shy and lonely. We’ve had the privilege of seeing them on night safaris in places like Borneo and seen first hand how elusive they are. They have…

In popular accounts of the history of sexual research, we tend to hear a lot about figures like Sigmund Freud, Alfred Kinsey, and William Masters. While their work was obviously incredibly influential, many other people who made significant contributions to the field are often left out of history. A key but under-recognized pioneer is American research psychologist Dr. Evelyn Hooker. Her ground-breaking work challenged the pathology of homosexuality and instigated a monumental shift in social understanding of sexual minorities. In this post, we will explore the key contributions and legacy of Dr. Hooker. To learn more about other “hidden figures”…

What is survivor infidelity? Surviving infidelity is the process of healing emotionally, mentally and sexually both individually and as a couple. Survival isn’t just about getting through a case. Rather, it involves thoroughly addressing the relationship’s deepest impact on the relationship so that the couple can experience true healing. Surviving Infidelity – Top 7 Steps 1-End all contacts The first step is often the hardest. If the strange partner wants to save his marriage, he must stop all contact with his lover. This includes no text messages, no social media monitoring, no phone calls, and no meetings. The new lover…

Divorces and separations rise every March, prompting new homeowners to quickly sell their homes and download dating apps.So this year, OkCupid is partnering with Open door, the fastest and easiest way to sell your home, to help these young singles — because they’re busy enough with their dates! In March 2023, there was a 7.4% increase in Likes and an 8.5% increase in Matches on OkCupid compared to the previous month, and we’re seeing similar trends this year. People date very close to the time of separation.To better understand post-breakup behaviors, OkCupid in partnership with Opendoor added new matching questions…