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Notes from the podcast: We all like to think we see the world clearly and objectively, but the truth is, as physicist Richard Feynman once said, “You shouldn’t fool yourself, and you’re the easiest person to fool.” This applies not only to our understanding of the world but also to our approach to relationships. In the world of dating and romance, we often fall prey to psychological biases that can hinder our chances of finding love. In this blog post, we’ll explore six biases that may be holding you back. #1. Focus effect (also known as saliency effect)Editor’s note: Are…

Dear Sybersue YouTube channel Life is full of adversity, but not living your life to your fullest potential due to fear, insecurity, or a lack of enthusiasm detracts from your long-term happiness. Being bolder and achieving regular goals and challenges is a very healthy environment to live in. Being stagnant doesn’t improve your life, it stifles your growth, and it doesn’t give you a sense of purpose or anything to look forward to. The reason New Year’s Resolutions are popular is that they encourage you to make changes in your life each year. Not everyone believes in this process, but…

Whether you know your relationship attachment style or not, it plays an important role in your daily life. It affects how you fall in love (and if you fall in love at all), how close you feel to the people in your life, and how easy or difficult it is for you to be vulnerable with others. Understanding your attachment style can be beneficial if you want to improve your everyday relationships, whether it’s with your partner, friends, family, or even yourself. So let’s talk about attachment theory, the different types of relationship attachment styles, and how to find out…

If you’re stuck in a cycle of conflict with your spouse, resentful of a recurring issue between you, or the two of you continue to have issues with a friend or family member, then it’s a good idea to consider some boundaries. marriage together. When you decide to have this conversation with your spouse, you want the conversation to be productive and help you move your marriage forward, not leave either of you disappointed or hurt. Here are 5 key tips to help you approach it well together Don’t talk when you’re angry. Heightened emotions do not help solve problems.…

In this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast, JJ DiGeronimo shares how mindfulness can help advance your career, business, and life. From Tech Leader to Women’s Empowerment I wondered how JJ, a leader in the tech industry, pivoted her career to become a coach and speaker for career women. She told me it wasn’t part of her plan, but it came out of a bit of desperation. The women have sold so much and promised us with the idea that if you keep going, it will all come together. But for her, everything fell apart! She had her…

This is written by Susie… One weekend a few years ago, Otto and I were irritated and cranky with each other, which is quite unusual for us. We were definitely not at our best! We can blame it on all kinds of external circumstances, but when I really look closely, here’s what I see… We both allowed the “baggage” we unknowingly carried in the form of old beliefs and perceptions to get in the way of love. Looking back at some of our interactions over the weekend, here is what I now see in myself… –I can see the belief…

Saying sorry is not something many people know how to do. It’s hard for many reasons, which is why so many people often don’t say it – even at times when an apology is most needed. Love is never having to say sorry’ may be one of the most famous movies of all time. But while I’m a big fan of it the 1970 film Love Story,“I have to say that I completely disagree with this now well-known phrase. If you’re truly in love, there aren’t many things that mean more than a well-deserved apology. But I feel like people…

End the relationship when you are asked to change who you are When someone loves you, they love you for who you are right now. He accepts your flaws and probably loves you for them. He doesn’t even see the nose you wish you had redone years ago. No. I take it back, he sees it and can’t imagine why you would want to change it. But when someone criticizes you to get in better shape or get a better job, it’s time to think about whether this is right for you. Asking someone to use less salt when cooking…

Interested in better understanding sexual polarity? My story below is a true example of polarity at work… I met Eric on my three month trip to Central America at a random couch surfing party. He was just my type: adventurous, mysterious and evil. It was “love at first 6 hours of talking”. He had already been in Panama for five months, studying Spanish, learning how to salsa dance, and considering whether he should pursue a law degree. He lived to question himself. Whether it was martial arts, learning languages, unusual career choices, or adapting to foreign cultures, life as a…

Stuck between Zagreb and Dubrovnik for your Croatian adventure? We feel you. Both gems sparkle with their own unique charm, leaving you asking, “beach days or city walks?” Don’t worry, lovebirds, we’ve got your back (and your bikinis)! Sun-kissed Dubrovnik Picture this: blue Adriatic waves lapping at your toes as you build sand castles together (where is Dubrovnik? It’s nestled along Croatia’s southern coast!), ancient city walls protecting your love nest, and whispers of Game of Thrones echoing through the narrow alleyways. That, my dears, is Dubrovnik, a coastal gem where history and sunbathing blend seamlessly. Dubrovnik is your happiness…