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What if my husband doesn’t know he’s hurting me? “Some men grow up dysfunctional. Their inner world is so upside down that they don’t know what “healthy” looks like. What if my husband is just repeating the behavior he saw growing up? What if he doesn’t know?’ Women in damaged marriages sometimes struggle with these questions. (I’ve talked to a few.) Usually it’s the woman in the process of accepting that maybe she’s not the problem she’s been told she is. That maybe the issues in marriage are more individual (aka husband) than common. In the process (and roller-coaster) of…

Last updated on October 30, 2023 at 10:06 amThe dawn of the digital age has brought us many wonders, including the power of virality. Remember it JK Wedding Entrance Dance? If you do, you’re probably already smiling. But if you don’t, let me take you on a delightful journey back in time to one of the most captivating moments of internet fame.Hey, have you ever fantasized about turning what is supposed to be a formal occasion into a full blown dance party? That’s exactly what Jill and Kevin did. No standing still for this pair. Instead, they decided to dance…

One of the ways to get the love you want and connect with the people in your life in a deeper way is to let go of past hurts. Those past hurts you carry can manifest in two different ways… 1. Guilt Looking back, there are now things you wished for he hadn’t done that caused great pain to others – or perhaps things you wished for he had Done which you didn’t do. Somehow you think that by carrying this guilt, you will make up for what was or wasn’t done. 2. Resentment Someone did something to you that…

I have a long history of difficulty with interpersonal interactions and have always struggled to find a place for myself among everyone else. My teenage years were spent feeling out of the loop. Many neurodeviant people will no doubt relate to these experiences, and many queer people can too. If you’re in both of these demographics, join the club! You’re in good company. I am an autistic, genderqueer lesbian and experience these three identities as closely intertwined. It’s not just me. Studies in publications such as Autism: The International Journal of Research and Practice and Autism Research: Official Journal of…

With items like Wiener schnitzel, sacher torte and – controversially – croissants hailing from Austria, you’d expect great things from its capital, Vienna. Here are 10 places to eat and drink in Vienna’s Old Town. We love exploring new cities, and although Christina and I have passed through Vienna many times, we never had time to leave the airport and see it. But on our train journey across Europe, we were able to stop in this fascinating city, a focal point of so much history and culture. Click here for our complete guide to Vienna. And as we discovered while…

Most of us know what an open relationship entails, in theory. You and your partner agree that you can see other people, setting as many or as few rules and boundaries as you need to make that happen. It doesn’t sound that complicated on paper, but as with anything involving relationships and emotions, open relationships can be a little different in practice. Sometimes, we just don’t realize how different until we have already agreed to try it. Related story This Reddit family rift was confirmed by a cat’s birthday party, and no, we’re not kidding This is especially true for…

Podcast: DownloadOur research on Why men and women say no to sex found that 11% of men say no because of premature ejaculation and another 11% say no because of erectile dysfunction. There is probably some overlap, but basically one in five men don’t have or limit sex because of these problems. This makes me very sad.I have studied these subjects for three decades. I know that both issues present challenges, but I also know that neither should prevent a couple from having a mutually satisfying sex life. Today I will discuss erectile difficulties and next week they will peak…

A reader asked me, “Tony, how do I know when a girl wants me to touch her? I don’t want to be creepy or move too fast.” I get it, you want to touch your date, but you don’t want him to blow the whistle on the rape. When I was a teenager, a super hot girl lived next door. She had giant jugs, and every time I talked to her, I literally crapped my pants. She was down to hang out and I went over to her house a few times a week. But I was too crazy and…

“God, you’re cute!””You are my man”.”Thanks for everything.”Girl, there are many things we can say that can really make our man’s hearts melt. I mean, what guy doesn’t want to hear how cute and amazing he is? Well, let me start by saying that there is no one size fits all when it comes to saying words that will affirm your man and make him slowly become putty in your hands, but there are three words that will not only encourage and support as man, husband and father, but it will also help him continue to be strong, allowing him…

Revealing the Beauty of Geneva and beyond Embarking on a road trip is an exciting way to experience the beauty and charm of a country up close. When it comes to scenic landscapes, cultural diversity and historical wonders, Switzerland undoubtedly ranks high on the list. Geneva, with its stunning lakeside setting and international appeal, is the perfect starting point for an unforgettable Swiss road trip. In this blog post, we’ll delve into the details of a 3-day road trip to Geneva, uncovering hidden gems, sharing travel tips, and highlighting the cheapest place to rent a car in Europe. Other articles…