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The Modern Woman in Traditional Relationships: Navigating Evolved DynamicsWithout falling into the narrative of patriarchy, the modern woman living within a traditional relationship is a very interesting subject to explore, especially by a man trying to evolve for himself. What does this actually mean in relation to the modern woman, especially in relation to traditional relationships? When I think of traditional relationships, I automatically think of relationships based on the philosophy of monogamy, and I think this can be viewed in two ways. One is the negatives that come with traditional relationships and of course the many positives that come…

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Afe sex can be really sexy (no lie) — especially when you find a condom that’s amazing for you and your partner. But which condoms exactly? This can be a bit more difficult. So here you go scrolling through the online store in utter disbelief. How can there be so many? What the heck? It’s just a penis, not a spaceship. Different people want different things from their raincoats. Choosing the right condom is like choosing a meal at a restaurant, you can genetically select the menu blindly and it will be fine. But take the time to consider the…

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People love drama. They get their jolt of caffeine as much from shock and awe as from a dark roast. Tell them you’re not happy in your marriage and they’ll hypothetically ask who’s cheating. More often than not, however, what leads to an unhappy marriage is not black or white. It is buried in shades of gray. Not exactly the juicy novels… …and possibly little or no consolation for the intensity of the misery you may be feeling. If you’re looking for answers to your current frustration, it’s probably been brewing for a long time. The “little things” that fly…

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What is Trancension? That’s exactly what you’re about to find out in this latest episode Breathe Love & Magic podcast. Wait until you meet Eugenia Oganova. Definition of exceedance According to Wiktionary, the definition of transcendence is the act of surpassing, surpassing, or surpassing something so as to render it obsolete. This is what we humans are doing right now as we transcend our old selves and become new and improved beings. Eugenia has created the Transcension Method which is a system that allows you to create a multidimensional awakening so you can move to higher levels. Let’s just say…

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6 minutes reading Why do people fake orgasms? Well, there are many reasons. And it’s also very common, research shows 28% of people in the United States have difficulty achieving an orgasm. So, if you’re confused and wondering why anyone would ever fake an orgasm (or why you fake your orgasm), know that there are many possible answers. And as a sex therapist and coach, I will help you understand all of this. Because faking an orgasm isn’t evil or manipulative—it’s a response to sexual norms. Why do people fake orgasms? Whether the faking is about yourself or your partner…

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Happy Thanksgiving! Since many of us are currently in the season of thanksgiving and being reminded of all the wonderful things we’re thankful for, we wanted to highlight some of the sexiest things we’re thankful for this year. Research has shown that engaging in sexual activity, both alone and with a partner, can have a wide range of physical and psychological benefits. With new technologies beginning to change the sexual landscape, there are additional opportunities on the horizon to take advantage of these benefits! In this post, we’ll explore five sexy things to be thankful for in 2023 and beyond.…

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Someone said to me the other day, “Tony, thanks for writing stuff for beginners. Some of the other coaches write such complex, meta-advice.” The reason I write things for beginners is because picking up women is a basic monkey-like desire that any man can learn with a basic understanding of female psychology and a little willpower. Of course, this is not the case if you lack bravery, positive attitude, hygiene, style and average intelligence. Cowards and losers will simply disappear from the gene pool. In practice, the cold approach is that simple. Approach lots of women. Make sexual advances to…

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Not if you want to keep having sex with herI would love to be a sexy little housewife.I’m hanging around the kitchen in my cute apron, my bare ass peeking out the back. Relaxing in bed with a loose sweater. Ready to feel and love.I tease my husband via text all day so he can come home and piss me off when he’s done with work. I’m not sure I could keep it up forever. But it would be nice while it lasted.However, I didn’t get much chance to play this role.My self-esteem got in the way. Turns out you…

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If you are wondering how to save your marriage you must begin with indignation. Resentment can be significant and is common because both you and your partner are imperfect human beings. Before long, someone is going to get hurt, offended, or have their needs unmet. It’s inevitable, hurt will happen. When it happens, most people handle it badly by escalating, withdrawing, or becoming passive aggressive, which further injures the marriage. Unresolved resentment will prevent you from filling your partner’s love bucket because you have a clog in your pipe. So learning how to effectively resolve resentment is critical if you’re…

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Posted by Sandy Weiner in Communication Skills in Dating , Midlife Dating | 0 comments Want to learn how to set clear boundaries in dating and relationships? Listen to this episode with boundary experts Jan and Jillian Yuhas. — Dating boundaries are extremely important. My podcast guests, identical twins Jan and Jillian Yuhas, are relationship and boundary experts. With a background in psychotherapy and family mediation, they are dedicated to solving relationship challenges in every part of life. They are the co-authors of Boundary Badass, a new book designed to empower readers to express…

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