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“Not all churches.” Every once in a while, after reading my writings on marital and religious harm, someone will decide to let everyone know that what they just read doesn’t apply to every situation. I’m fine with the subtle distinction. But where there is a history of minimizing, deflecting and shifting blame whenever evil is invoked, we must ask why immediate “fixes”, in self-evident contexts, are a solution. Some of the common returns in these simple frames (eg “behavior x hurts”) include “My pastor is not like that.” “Not all churches are like that.” “Not all marriages.” “We need to…

Posted by Sandy Weiner in Dating Communication Skills, Red Flags in Relationships | 0 comments My podcast guest, Kelli Miller, has simple solutions to common relationship issues. Tune in to learn more! — Kelli Miller is a psychotherapist, best-selling author and radio host. He is the author of the book on couples’ relationships.Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” and the award-winning best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. She was a relationship presenter on Balance from Nature TV and is currently a relationship writer and presenter for wikihow.com. Kelli was a…

Did you get married expecting it to look a certain way and then be disappointed when it didn’t? This is so discouraging and can even put your marriage at risk. These are the top 3 expectations I had from my wedding that STILL come up for me sometimes and for many of our students as well. So see if you identify with these unrealistic expectations. One of the most insidious for me is #1: 1. Doing lots of chores and housework is the way to be a good wife Early on, I thought my efforts to keep a nice house,…

Want to learn a simple way to turn your man on and start having kinkier sex? Take the reins and start having sex. Of course, there is no right way to start sex. But we have some ideas that are sure to help you make your home success much more likely.Why you should initiate sexThink about your past sexual encounters, whether they were one-night stands or sex in a romantic relationship. Who initiated these meetings? Whose hand touched first, whose body pressed against another’s without prompting, or, in modern times, who sent the first sexy text? It is possible that…

This article was originally posted here. For Muslims, there is no better example or previous ideal of a husband than Prophet Muhammad (PBUB). He was the most loving, kind, humble, merciful, compassionate, faithful, trustworthy and generous husband ever. Indeed, his example in every aspect of life is perfect, and the list of his qualities is too numerous to enumerate. For this reason, it is the standard that every Muslim woman should use when looking for a husband. For Muslim men, the standards for what they should look for in an ideal wife are found in the Prophetic tradition: A woman…

Men often ask me, “Do attractive guys approach you at all? I know I’m handsome. Women check me out all the time, but they almost never approach me.”Here’s the answer: Very few women will approach men, no matter how attractive they are.This is because there has always been a certain double standard in dating and seduction. The onus is always on men to approach women first.That’s why most women won’t approach a man, no matter how handsome he looks. Because of the social conditioning that teaches women that men are the ones who are supposed to pursue them. And not…

Does Vicks VapoRub Really Cure ED? This information will empower you with the knowledge and insight you need to make informed decisions about your sexual health. If you’re looking for an unusual treatment for erectile dysfunction, you may have come across claims that Vicks VapoRub can provide relief. But does Vicks VapoRub really help erectile dysfunction? By delving into the facts and dispelling the myths, we aim to provide you with a clear understanding of the potential effects of applying Vicks VapoRub to the male genital area. Quick FAQ What is Vicks VapoRub? Vicks VapoRub is a topical ointment. It…

Every now and then I find myself thinking about the phrase have a safe flight. Where does the saying come from? Because it often occurs to me how strange it sounds sometimes, especially when you consider how safe flying is these days. Please tell me I’m not the only one! So today I’m shaking things up! I promise myself to stop saying “have a safe flight” and wish a happier journey to my loved ones. With that said, let’s jump right in! “Man must rise above the Earth—to the top of the atmosphere and beyond—for only then will he fully…

July 15, 2023 by Jackson Weiser and Charlotte Cremers Being in a relationship with someone who isn’t out can be an incredibly challenging experience for both partners. It often requires patience, understanding and support as your partner navigates the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. One of the key challenges is the need for secrecy and discretion. Keeping your relationship a secret from others can bring a significant emotional toll on both of you. It can leave you feeling exhausted and can also lead to feelings of frustration, isolation and even self-doubt. Additionally, you may wonder if your partner will eventually…

The tipping point: Factors leading to burnout Two months today, I found myself at a turning point. Lying in a hospital bed, my body and mental health needed immediate rest. Surrounded by a hum of machines and the relentless thud of needles for tests and IVs, I was diagnosed with burnout, a term I had heard but never really understood. Life had dealt me ​​a series of blows. I faced the end of a four-year job that left a bitter aftertaste, being rejected by the man I loved and the disappointment of a canceled vacation. The December cold turned colder…