From time to time, I get texts and emails asking me: Are women attracted to money? Should I focus on getting rich to get women to like me? Will having lots of cash and being rich solve my problems with women?
So here’s the truth: Money is just a bonus to who you are and what you have to offer as a person. And having a lot of money will NOT solve all your problems with women.
You see, the relationship between people and money has always been complicated. But this fact still stands: There are a lot of VERY RICH men who are absolutely crap with women and to whom women are not attracted at all. And some women even hate men with a lot of money.
Money will not solve all problems with women
Let’s face it – we all like money and we all need it to survive in this day and age. But women are not immediately attracted to money. They are attracted to men who have the POTENTIAL to make a lot of money.
That said, I’m sure you’ve heard the expression – Money can’t buy happiness. Well, money can’t buy love either.
The fact is, if all you have to offer women is money, then they will gladly take it and hang out with you. They might even have sex with you or get into a relationship with you. Especially if they are gold diggers and are very interested in getting a lot of money without having to do much themselves. Just like there are women who don’t want to work at all and just want to get a rich husband.
However, having deep pockets with lots of cash doesn’t mean these women will love you.
How much money does it take to impress a woman?
It doesn’t take a lot of money to impress women. But having a great car and a big house or apartment in some nice part of town is definitely impressive for most women.
That being said, there are a LOT of women out there who have rich husbands who are absolutely miserable. Especially if the husband is a bad person and only cares about appearance, status and wealth.
They often live in loveless, even sexless marriages. Simply because they can’t seem to connect on any other level than the financial one.
In fact, these women often cheat on their rich husbands and boyfriends with men they are actually very sexually attracted to. Who often don’t have much money to their name at all.
So even if you have a lot of money that would be impressive to others, it is completely irrelevant if you don’t have other great things going for you.
Basically, being flush with cash makes a great first impression. But if women see that this is the only good thing about you, they won’t really find you very attractive.
So you can stop wondering how much money it takes to impress women. Because trying hard to impress someone, especially by showing that you have a lot of capital, is not attractive at all.
Money doesn’t make women sexually attracted to you
The thing is, seduction and sexual attraction are all about how you make women feel when they’re around you. And if all you have to offer women is money and nothing else – they won’t want to be with you. Unless they are genuine gold diggers who make nothing but gold.
Other than that, high value and quality women who have their shit together are looking for a lot more in men than their wallets.
These women want a competent, fun, interesting and confident man who is secure in himself. Who has the ABILITY to make enough money to live comfortably. Or even more than comfortable, if things go well.
So money is just a bonus for women. And not having a lot of money isn’t a huge problem for most women, as long as you’re not homeless, penniless.
So don’t make the mistake of thinking that money is completely irrelevant. Because you have to have enough to live on. Or women will see it as a huge red flag when you can’t even support yourself enough to survive, let alone thrive.
In short, if you want to be really successful with women, instead of focusing on making money, focus on developing your charisma, confidence, charm, wit, and ability to have fun with women. And don’t forget to learn various social and seduction skills, such as how to flirt and build sexual tension, if you want to relax a lot and get a girlfriend or lover in no time.
