Men often ask me, “Do attractive guys approach you at all? I know I’m handsome. Women check me out all the time, but they almost never approach me.”
Here’s the answer: Very few women will approach men, no matter how attractive they are.
This is because there has always been a certain double standard in dating and seduction. The onus is always on men to approach women first.
That’s why most women won’t approach a man, no matter how handsome he looks. Because of the social conditioning that teaches women that men are the ones who are supposed to pursue them. And not the other way around. So the majority of women will wait for the man to make the first move.
The good news, though, is that you don’t have to beat yourself up about how you look if you’re not approached by women. You don’t have to put yourself down because that happens to most kids and we have to accept it. Women rarely approach men in general. And it’s rare to find a girl who has the balls to approach a guy and ask him out.
However, there are many different things you can do to invite women closer to you. I’ll show you what you can do to become more approachable.
Finally, some women WILL actually approach men. And they will definitely approach someone they find more attractive than a man who isn’t. But attraction doesn’t necessarily have much to do with your physical appearance. And if you think you’re ugly, women will approach you less. Just because you THINK you are ugly.
Attraction is very subjective. And while some people will find a person very attractive, others may not find them attractive at all.
So let me explain how it all works.
Why are attractive guys approached more than unattractive guys?
Attractive men are approached more simply because women find them more attractive.
I’m sure you understand that we all would like to have an attractive person by our side, as a lover, friend or even partner. And women are no different – they also want to have an attractive boyfriend or husband.
This is exactly why guys who make a great first impression are often approached by girls more than guys who don’t. And as I always say, your appearance has a huge impact on how great a first impression you make. Although it is not the most important thing in seducing and succeeding with girls.
However, you first need to actually meet a woman who is used to taking life into her own hands and has no problem approaching men herself.
This is because if you ask women, most of them will say that they would never cold approach a man just like that, on the street, in a coffee shop, in the mall, etc.
Women will definitely look at him or even stare at him. But they won’t make the first move, in the vast majority of cases. Because like us, they fear rejection. And they’re even more afraid because most women don’t get rejected as much as men, since men tend to be the ones to approach first.
Also, if the guy is ridiculously good looking, women will be intimidated by him. They might think he’s gay, or oblivious, or too cool for her and out of their league.
However, if you meet the few women who like and enjoy approaching men and aren’t afraid to do so, it’s still worth looking good. To do this, you can wear better clothes, groom yourself well, have strong and attractive body language and so on.
As long as you think that’s what makes you attractive and you meet your own criteria of what an attractive man should look like – it’ll be fine.
Now let me show you what you can do to invite girls closer to you.
Here’s what you can do to invite more approaches from girls
Finally, you should know that you can do certain things to invite more approaches from women. These help regardless of how attractive people think you are.
Here are the top 10 things you can do to make yourself more attractive at first glance so people will approach you more:
- Have an open and engaging body language
- Smile warmly
- You have a positive outlook and vibe
- Look girls in the eye with more confidence
- Nod and acknowledge women looking at you
- Don’t look away quickly when eye contact is made
- Don’t worry, avoid nervous ticks and habits
- Relax and don’t be stiff, move your body smoothly and smoothly
- Do not turn your body away or face the person
- Wave her to come
As you can see, being approachable is about what you do, not what you look like. And it’s all about the vibe you give off.
Cultivate the above habits and you’ll soon stop wondering if women are more attracted to attractive men.
Good luck!
