Learning how to make a girl think highly of you will really help you with seduction and dating. Because if you are often on her mind, she will start to like you more and more.
By the way, the opposite is also true. If after your date the girl doesn’t think about you as much or at all, then you have a problem. Because it means you didn’t really engage her emotionally, enough for her to remember and think about you.
This means that your first date or meeting didn’t make much of an impact. So she probably won’t be as eager to get back together with you, which isn’t great.
This is a fairly common problem that children face, so I will help you. Explaining all the things you need to do to get women thinking about you after your date. This way you will have a much better time generating interest, attraction and chemistry.
Do these things to make girls think about you more often
First of all, if you want women to think highly of you, then you need to make sure you have one successful first date.
To do this, you need to have fun with the girl, flirt with her, connect with her emotionally. And after they build and maintain sexual tension.
If you do these things right, women won’t just think about you all the time, they’ll MIND you!
This is because seduction is all about feelings. And if you can evoke many different emotions in women, such as bad boys if you do, then women will think of you very often.
Now let me show you how.
The best ways to make a girl think about you
There are several ways to make girls think of you when you’re not around:
- Be unpredictable
- Be fun and emotional
- Playfully tease girls affect them emotionally
- Make sure you have a really good first date
- Be mysterious and don’t reveal too much about yourself
- Tell various fun, interesting, exciting, entertaining, funny and exciting stories
- Show how good you are at some kind of skill, like playing the guitar
- Surprise them with something
- Give genuine compliments from they learn how to tell them they’re beautiful without being creepy
- Call the girls out on their bad behavior and mistakes
- Be provocative
- Learn how to be cocky and funny at the same time to make your interactions memorable
There are many other things you can do to make a girl think about you a lot. But these are the main ones to focus on.

See how to get her mind over you
To get a woman’s mind on you, first and foremost you have to NOT BE BORING.
This is because women don’t think about boring men, since there are too many of them. And they are often very similar to each other. Asking women various boring interview type questions when they are on a date etc.
That’s why you need to learn how not to be a boring man.
If you don’t know how to approach a woman in the right way and talk to her like hundreds of other men, she won’t think you’re anything special. Especially if you do it in a way that doesn’t stand out from all the other guys he’s been talking to that month.
In order to stand out from the other guys and get his attention after meeting you, you need to approach in a memorable way. Because if you don’t do that but somehow end up getting her number, she probably won’t even respond to you later. Or remember who you are.
This is one of the reasons why women fantasize about men.
How do you make her crave you?
To make a girl lust after you instead of just thinking about you, it has to be there sexual tension.
Sexual tension is the spark of chemistry between the two of you that makes her think things like “Does he really like me or does he not like me?”
This ambiguity is very interesting for women. Especially if they already like you and don’t know if they’ve won you over yet.
You create this sexual tension by, for example, being physical with the girl and touching her a lot. Enabling discussion on more intimate topics. And maintaining intense eye contact and teasing her sexually.
When there is enough sexual tension between you and the girl, she will start thinking about you a lot. Especially when you’re away from her.
Also, when there is sexual chemistry between you and her, she will start thinking about sex with you. And if you’re not around, she’ll start to FANTASE about you, which is even better.
Sometimes this feeling will be so strong, that he will pick up the phone and text you or call you and suggest you meet up. Because he is horny and wants to sleep with you. This is why sexual tension is actually good making women chase you.
How do you make a girl miss you?
Another way to make a girl think about you is to make her miss you a lot.
And you make a girl miss you by not always being there for her, whenever she wants.
For example, if a girl calls you and asks you on a date, then you can tell her that you are busy if you are. Instead of putting all your personal commitments, work and school aside just to meet her.
Basically, to make a girl miss you, you have to spend less time with her. Because people only start missing someone when they are not around. And they are not always available for you to meet. Because absence makes the heart long for more.
So don’t be afraid to say no to women when you are busy and have other things in your life. As this will show them that you are not desperate or needy. That you have your own things to do and don’t put women on a pedestal by doing everything to please them.


This is particularly important if you think the girl is out of league. By telling her no, you’ll be signaling to her that she’s not good enough for you.
Surprisingly, women will want you more when you are not always able to meet with them. Because there are many other important and fun things going on in your life.
This is because women, and people in general, often want what they cannot have. Something that will make them think about you, miss you, and even obsess over you if their feelings are strong enough.
Final thoughts on how to get on girls’ minds
Now that you know how to make a girl think about you, you should use it to your advantage.
You see, when you meet and hang out and you both enjoy each other’s company, she will start to like you. But over time, her interest in you will fade, little by little.
To make sure her attraction to you doesn’t wane as quickly as it might otherwise, make sure you use all the tips I have above. Then when you’re apart doing whatever it is you need to do in life, she’ll keep her interest in you. And sometimes, if you’ve been memorable and fun to hang out with, that interest and attraction will GROW.
That’s the benefit of having girls thinking about you. When you are not around, their interest can really increase because they will start to miss you a lot. Since you are so fun and interesting to hang out with.
This requires charm, charisma, and good social skills to pull it off. So start learning!