Today I’m going to reveal one of my best techniques on how to touch women and be physical on dates in a non-gross way. So women don’t find you too thirsty, creepy, weird, shy, scared and so on.
I use this technique on almost every date with girls and have great results. And it works without fail almost every time to initiate touching and getting physical with the girl. Which later paves the way for gradual escalation and intimacy.
I get a ton of emails from guys with various questions about dating and seduction. And I recently got an email from a guy who said he has issues with physicality, intimacy, and escalation. As well as problems with touching women, due to a lack of courage to initiate touching.
As I always say, being physical with women is one of the most important things in seduction. And I’ve learned to be VERY physical with women since the beginning. Because if you’re not physical with the girl while you’re on a date with her, then her attraction to you won’t grow as quickly as it could and should. And you will find it very difficult to get more intimate with her and kiss her later. Which leads to very little natural, raw gut-level pull.
So watch out, because this technique of physically scaling and breaking the touch barrier is ridiculously effective. It’s one of my absolute favorites.
Initiate touching and getting physical with women through storytelling
Yes, you read that right – one of the best ways to initiate contact with women and show you’re a natural is through STORYTELLING.
Basically, you touch her while telling her some story.
I’m sure, like every other person on the planet, you have a few stories from your life. Stories you tell most women you meet – right?
Because if you don’t tell women you’re on a date with various interesting, exciting, fun, weird, silly and funny stories from your life or your friends’ lives – YOU’RE DATING WRONG!
Instead of being boring and pressuring her with interview-style questions to get to know her – and instead of thinking she’ll eventually do the same to you to get to know you – you need to use storytelling. Which, in turn, will elicit some stories from her about her life and herself.
Is one of the keys to not being a boring guy when dating.
But I digress – let’s get back to the technique:
Storytelling is a great excuse to start touching women in a non-gross way
So have some interesting stories from your life and the lives of your friends that you tell women on dates.
Now you need to think of some points in your stories where you can TOUCH the woman you are with to emphasize some key story point.
For example, one of the stories I tell women is how an older gay man tried to seduce me when I was working as a bartender when I was studying at a university.
It was quite a late night and I talked for several hours with this man. We had a fun conversation and I didn’t know he was gay or even suspect it at the time. Then, he invited me to a party where he said there would be a lot of cool people, women and men. And he said we can go there in his car.
Later, when he was driving to the party with me in the passenger seat, he suddenly put his hand on my thigh and started massaging it, then telling me he was gay – in a very creepy way.
The results of using kino correctly are as you would expect
I tell this story to most of my dates because it’s pretty funny, weird, and silly. Of course I say it in a much more interesting way than I do here. Because I’m only giving you the broad strokes right now, for the sake of brevity.
In any case, when I get to the point where he puts his hand on my thigh and starts rubbing it, I WILL ALWAYS TOUCH THE WOMAN I AM IN THE EXACT SAME WAY!
I put my hand on her thigh and start rubbing it in a super creepy yet playful way while saying a weird “Ohohoho!” sounds like i’m enjoying it a lot, in a mocking way. To show how strange the experience was for me – and to break the familiar barrier of touch at the same time.
More importantly, I have told this story HUNDREDS of times to HUNDREDS of different women. From the girl next door, to classy millionaire business owners, Instagram models and so on. And as far as I can remember, NOT ONE WOMAN was uncomfortable with that kind of touching. Even though most of it would be extremely awkward if I did it WITHOUT the context of the story.
The full potential of being physical with women in storytelling
Are you beginning to fully understand the potential of this amazing technique? It’s actually one of the best ways, other than roleplaying, that I’ve found to touch women on dates and introduce physicality. Or go to the next level.
I can’t stress this enough: USE STORYTELLING AS A WAY TO BREAK THE TOUCH BARRIER AND GET PHYSICAL WITH THE GIRL.
Find places in your story where you can show something through touch. Whatever you come up with will work very well. Just don’t make it seem like you’re making it up to have an excuse to touch her.
You need to incorporate footage from YOUR REAL STORIES where you touch someone and TOUCH THEM that way as you tell the story. It should come in a relaxed and natural way.
Do you want to start touching the girl in a VERY low-risk way, even if you are afraid of touching women?
Tell her a story where you are a stranger to a friend. And SHOW her, saying – “We did it just like that!” and raise your hand in a high-five gesture. ANTENNA! It will take you back!
Do you want to put your arm around her? Then tell her a story, for example, where you’re sitting with a girl in a movie theater and you put your hand on her, but then you meet and grope someone else’s hand sitting behind her – and how stupid, stupid, weird, or whatever that feels. And show it while telling the story!
Say something like “We went to this horror movie and we were sitting like you and I are now. And I put my arm around her just like that <και βάλε το χέρι σου γύρω της> and accidentally touched the greasy hair of that man sitting on her right! EWWW that was really bad!” or something like this.
Do you want to take it further and touch her more intimately? Tell a story where you touch and massage someone’s shoulders and SHOW them.
Do you really want to take it on? Tell a story where you whisper something sexy into a woman’s ear to make a point – and show it! Whisper something in her ear!
This will make you really close and intimate with the girl you are dating. This is exactly the point to learn how to use this technique to touch women.
The KEY to successful physical behavior with women when telling stories
The key, of course, is to be PLAYFUL and NOT AWESOME when doing all of this. Calibration is also very important.
Spontaneous is when you feel or look casually calm and relaxed. does not show anxiety, interest or excitement.
You can both FEEL like this or APPEAR like this. Feeling this way is always preferable, as it will then align with your true self and your authenticity. Which is part of his true saying “Just be yourself” means by the way. But appearing this way is the second best option. You may not feel comfortable or calm inside, but at least you don’t show it. Something that doesn’t send weird vibes to the people around you, otherwise ruining the mood.
Just don’t go for the heavy stuff like picking it up and spinning it or nailing it to the wall to tell a story, all over again. Use common sense, I can’t believe I have to keep repeating this.
Do everything gradually if you are not at all sure if she likes you.
Or what the hell, you can do it from scratch if you see that it’s at least somewhat into you. Because if she likes you even a little, this MIGHT work! But it will work when she likes you. It does for me and a lot of guys who try it.
Being bold and shy like that is attractive enough, in itself, if you can pull it off. As long as it all happens naturally and is part of the story you’re telling, you can prove it and she won’t mind. IT JUST NEEDS TO BE ENTERTAINING OR USEFUL.
Women don’t like fake and inauthentic men – this!
When learning how to touch women on dates using this technique, DO NOT overemphasize the touch itself. Otherwise you will make it very weird.
Touch her in a real and nonchalant way as you tell the story. The story itself should be the MAIN POINT, not the heartwarming!
You do this to make the story better. Physicality is just a tool to make the story more engaging, interesting and entertaining.
This is because if you are doing this with the ultimate goal of just being able to touch the girl and not making the narrative the main point – most women will notice that you are fake and insincere.
You won’t be your authentic self and you’ll look weird if you do this technique just to touch women. So fair warning because it might backfire and make her think you’re a creepy dude.
Latest thoughts on how to touch girls in a non-casual way on your date
Now you know how to touch girls on a date in a way that is almost fool proof.
If you do it right, as I describe above and make this technique your own, the sky is the limit.
This is because you will be able to touch women in almost any way you want. What’s the real beauty of this technique on how to be physical on dates.
In fact, this way of touching her on a date is like role playing. And I really believe role play with women on dates it’s one of the best things in any seducer’s arsenal. It’s definitely in the top 3 tools for me, along with teasing.
Eventually, you will become VERY GOOD at it and being a natural person will become second nature to you.
I’m serious when I say it’s the perfect excuse to start touching and getting more intimate with women. While showing them you are not afraid to touch them. Even if you are really afraid to be physical with women lol.
Use your imagination
How well you can use it and how effective the technique is is entirely up to you and your imagination.
Feel free to be as physical as you can when you do it. The point of learning how to touch women is to eventually be able to become a person who naturally incorporates kino and physicality into your personality.
I often push and shake girls when I playfully tease them and tell various jokes. Then I hug them and put my arms around them and hug them and pick them up every chance I get when it’s natural to do so. I tell many different stories to show that I am an interesting and fun person. And show as many physical things as possible from these stories. And my results speak for themselves.
Finally, I urge you to read my roleplaying post because it is very similar in concept. You can be whoever you want to be while role-playing with women on dates. And you can touch them as much as you want while doing it.
