Holiday blues. We’ve all suffered from feeling down or alone right now! Seeing all those supposedly happy couples go gift shopping…while you’re alone. You wonder if you’re doomed to a miserable vacation if your relatives are driving you crazy. Or are you nervous about introducing your family to a serious date, someone who could be The One?
Does your mom always say what a shame you’re still single? Even if your family is a battleground or you’re super stressed, you can beat the holiday blues by using my ten hacks for singles. To turn these traditional family gatherings into real celebrations.
Holiday Blues Hack 1. Bring the spirituality back to the holidays.
Pray, meditate or just spend time in nature alone or with loved ones. This gives you “peace on earth” which is much more satisfying than unwrapping a hundred presents. It really is about taking care of yourself!
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Holiday Blues Hack 2. Do three random acts of kindness each day during the holiday season.
Selfless acts of giving where you expect nothing in return are extremely good for your health and mood. You will immediately feel uplifted, even if you felt down at first. So pick up your phone and call someone who needs help. You will be amazed at the difference in your mood!
Holiday Blues Hack 3. Move your annoying relatives to be cordial
List three things, even small things like hair color or crossword skill, that you really appreciate. Use these things in your conversation in an authentic way at the beginning of the family visit. This will tend to shock those ‘bad eggs’ into ‘good eggs’. And you will have a much more pleasant celebration!
Holiday Blues Hack 4. Use the healer’s secret.
When facing a difficult relative, win by refusing to fight. Acknowledge the comments that were bothering you with a nod and say, “That’s how you see it.” This really throws them off and saves you from verbal fights and a lot of holiday stress.
Holiday Blues Hack 5. Eliminate joy-killing fights between your kids.
If you’re a single mom, get all of your kids, even the youngest ones, to help prepare for the holidays. Have them set the table, decorate, slice and dice. This basic family relationship tip will get kids’ attention, give them something to be proud of, and stop any bickering.
Holiday Blues Hack 6. Set your intention for this holiday.
You can decide to have a happy holiday, no matter what your family relationships are like. Make a loving affirmation to yourself like, “This is the happiest Christmas or Hanukkah I’ve ever had.” Remember to use the present tense. Instead of getting involved in family relationship battles, as soon as possible, treat yourself to your own fun – excuse yourself and go for a walk, grab your favorite Starbucks java, or make snow angels with the kids.
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Holiday Blues Hack 7. Stop Worrying About Appearance.
For example, you have friends over for dinner and you’re nervous. Realize that it’s not about having a house or a meal that’s perfect: it’s about how you feel when people come to your house. In fact, if you are exhausted with the decorations, the table setting, and the food being perfect, you will end up exhausted or miserable. Your real job is to create a welcoming atmosphere full of festivities, fun and joy. And you can do it!
Holiday Blues Hack 8. Create a tradition of personal sharing and gratitude.
Around the dinner table, ask each family member to talk about their favorite holiday memories, especially the blessings and small miracles they experienced. Ask them to share what they are most grateful for on this special day. Research shows that the happiest people are those who are grateful for what they have. This will cheer you up!
Holiday Blues Hack 9. Create a positive bond when a new boyfriend/girlfriend comes over for holiday dinner.
Here are some basic family relationship tips when introducing a new love interest. In advance, tell both your family and friend all the “good news” about each other. Then introduce topics of conversation that interest both of you. Even if you’re the newbie in the family, bring an incredibly thoughtful gift for the occasion, ask questions, and listen a lot. Finally, appreciate all the good things about the meal, the house, and the family members and remember to tell them what you liked!
Holiday Blues Hack 10. Give yourself the gift of passionate love with a high level man.
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