If you’re looking for the magic words that make every girl want you, look no further, you dare devil. I have your magic pill right here.
When I first discovered that you could use language to seduce women, it completely opened up my world.
I found a method called “Speed Seduction”. a pickup style invented by a guy named Ross Jeffries. It drew on NLP, hypnosis and general self-help for male-type advice.
The idea is that you can input words into your language, which he calls “patterns,” and then use those words to turn girls on, subliminally make them consider sleeping with you, or even fall in love with you.
I tried it; Yes. Was it effective? Well, yes and no.
It was effective because it forced me to approach girls thinking I had a magic pill in my pocket. He also taught me not to be such a typical, boring, nice guy.
Back then I wasn’t confident enough with girls to try it. Now that I’m older and have been with many women, I don’t care.
Anyway, here’s an example of a Speed Seduction pattern:
“Actually… I’m just standing here… talking to you… I have an intuition… that when you connect with someone… someone you really like… someone you’re really attracted to that makes you feel that click… right there… you know that feeling of you feel completely mesmerized… as if you have known this person forever… as if you were meant to meet them…. a big part is this recognition that you can RELAX and laugh with this person… you can feel that (touch her and feel the feeling)… is that how it works?”
If you actually talk to a girl like that, unless you tell her you’re a hypnotist, she might ask if you’re really good in your pumpkin. It just doesn’t sound like real human beings talking.
Use descriptive words to create a more engaging conversation
So I took a handful of his patterns and took out all the adjectives. Here is the list, which is much more than 7 sneaky words to make a girl want you.
- Incredible
- Really
- Large
- Total
- Awesome
- Afraid
- Nervous
- Surprising
- The neatest
- Hot
- Safe
- Comfortable
- Specific
- Spellbound
- Scan it
- Strong
- Tender
- Intense
- Undue
- Crazy
- Instantaneous
- Long
- Vividly
- Surprised
- Better
- Fantastic
- Delicious
- Deep
- All
Note These are emotionally charged words.
Start dropping these words into your conversations and you’ll find them becoming more interesting to her than your normal “So what did you do today?” surface level conversation.
I call this “Sweet Talk”.
Yes, like your grandfather used in your Gma.
“Bessie, I have a crazy idea. I know what we have is safe and special. And you might feel nervous about being with me. But we are stronger together, and we will have the best time, in my warm bedroom. I want to show my gramophone. Sugar tits. You will be surprised. It is the best. Let’s go.”
The Slippery Slide
Using rich, descriptive language, we create a “slippery slide” of poetry that forces the listener to focus on our words. It’s the same effect when you enjoy great music, a great lyricist, or the expert lines of a talented actor.
The greatest seducers know how to use poetry, storytelling and talent to get their point across. They understand that seduction is all about emotion, and emotion can be powerfully communicated through language.
It could even work with texting if you’re masterful.
You can convey feelings without words, with a long look in the eyes or a run together on a moonlit beach. But it’s much easier to use poetry.
If your vocabulary sucks, write down this list of words and practice introducing them into your conversations, any conversations. Start with a word like “Amazing” or “Feeling” or even better, “Amazing feeling” until you get used to using that phrase.
“What did you do today Tony?”
“I had this overwhelming feeling that I had to write a blog post.”
Have fun with it.
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