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For people with a vulva, there are many ways to have a really good orgasm. One of the most favorite of the big O’s is the ones that come from clitoral stimulation, because, well, the clitoris is an extremely sensitive area fully charged with erogenous energy (aka thousands of nerves concentrated in that hot spot).
As sex educator and relationship coach Dawn Serra previously told SheKnows, the clitoris is a “vast network of bulging, prickly pleasure.” It’s bigger than you think (more like a quadruped than a point), it has its own erection (similar to a penis), and the ways it receives and responds to pleasure evolves over time. And while you may have found your way around your own clit (or coached a few partners on the Dos and Don’ts), it’s perfectly normal for the clit to take a while to reach full arousal. “Remember that it takes, on average, 20-25 minutes of stimulation and foreplay to fully arouse a woman,” says Serra.
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While there are tons of games on the market — ones that cater to infiltration, high-tech bells and whistles, or ones that are just unique and a little weird — sometimes you want to find a game that very good at one thing. Whether you’re just starting your toy collection or looking for a new toy MVP, we’ve rounded up our favorites—the ones that mimic the mouth (down to the tongue) and the ones that vibrate in low tones and loud ways—that target the clit. Try a few of these and you’ll upgrade your knowledge in no time.
A version of this story was published in April 2020.
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G Spot Bullet Vibrator Sex Toy for Women
Consider this bullet vibrator your ticket to an amazing orgasm. It has seven satisfying modes so you can customize your enjoyment time, it’s quiet so no one knows what you’re doing behind closed doors and it’s USB rechargeable for convenience on the go.
G Spot Bullet Vibrator$6.99
on Amazon.com
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Sohimi ALFA Sucking Vibrator Thursting Dildo Plug
Sometimes you really do need the best of both worlds. This sweet dual stimulation toy from Sohimi offers a choice of suction and clitoral vibration along with vibration and G-spot thrusting with nine stimulation speeds. Made from medical-grade silicone, it’s comfortable to wear, waterproof and easy to clean and charge, making it an extremely reliable bedside BFF.
Sohimi ALFA suction vibrator$52.99
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LELO Sona 2 Cruiser
Another sucking clit stimulator, the Sona’s shape is uniquely perfect for one hand and allows people who don’t enjoy intense vibrations or penetration to have a wild ride.
Sona 2 Cruise$98.80 $149.00 34% discount.
on Amazon.com
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Womanizer Starlet 3
Womanizer toys bring a unique sucking sensation that manages to mimic the mouth in a different way, without a tongue. Quiet, decently sized and easy to clean, the Starlet is a great, affordable model to take the plunge.
Womanizer Starlet 3$79
on Amazon.com
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Enigma Cruise
Flexible and ultra-soft, LELO’s Enigma Cruise uses sound waves to stimulate your clitoris, meaning it doesn’t even have to touch your skin to make you see stars — but it also delivers penetrating G-spot stimulation for when you want it so deep, full feeling.
LELO Enigma Cruise$164.37 $219.00 25% discount.
on Amazon.com
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Le Wand Petite
A travel-friendly wand (a great and versatile toy for any collection), this small and powerful toy is comfortable and easy to use.
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Dame Fin
Fingers are small and powerful toys that amplify the power of what you already have, making them ideal for hands-on play. You can’t go wrong with the Dame Fin, which is easy to hold and very strong for its tiny size.
Dame Fin$53.95 $80.00 33% discount.
on Amazon.com
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Mimic Plus
The Mimic Plus uses deeper, louder vibrations to stimulate the clitoris and is perfect for solo play and partner playtime.
Mimic + Vibrator PLUS$87.98
on Amazon.com
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Eva II
The Eva II is an awesome, beautiful companion toy that can simply be hung below the lips to give optimal clitoral stimulation while having penetrative sex.
Eva II$139.99
on Amazon.com
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IDA wave
This waterproof, remote-controlled vibe, the IDA Wave by LELO, features two motors and 10 different vibration settings, so you’re sure to find a combination that works for you.
LELO IDA Wave$132.30 $189.00 30% discount.
on Amazon.com
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Lovehoney Sqweel 2
The Sqweel 2 may look like a tiny fan, but it’s more likely to heat you than cool you, if you catch our drift. The rotating silicone tongues and three speeds of this toy are unlike any other toy you’ve ever played with.
Sqweel 2$39.99
on Amazon.com
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LELO Mia 2
For a discreet, USB-rechargeable massage that’s still full, there’s no better choice than the Mia 2. To the untrained eye, it looks like a regular lipstick or fancy mascara.
LELO Mia 2$62.30
on Amazon.com
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Ride
Volta’s unique shape and thump, thump sensations give a unique twist to clitoral stimulation.
Ride$128.66 $135.99 5% discount.
on Amazon.com
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Pocket rocket
The Pocket Rocket has truly lived up to its name. This tiny, classic clit vibe features a removable cap over a textured head so you can choose a smooth or bumpy surface to tone this sensitive area.
Pocket rocket$25.86
on Amazon.com
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WANAM Tongue Licking Vibrator
Yes, the WANAM Licking-Tonge Vibrator is pretty much what it sounds like: a clitoral vibrator meant to simulate a tongue. It comes with nine different frequency modes that you can use on your clitoris, nipples, or anywhere else you want to explore.
WANAM Tongue Licking Vibrator$32.88
on Amazon.com
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Remote control clitoral vibrator
Get some fun power dynamics with this clit vibrator, which can be controlled via a remote or app – making it perfect for partner play when one of you is away.
Remote control clitoral vibrator$22.98 $24.98 8% discount.
on Amazon.com
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